Thursday, March 29, 2012

Bookworm



I love this boy. I especially love when he has a low grade fever with a slight runny nose so he can stay home from school and be with me and his brothers who need him!

Yesterday he was home sick, and I had already scheduled to have some friends (and their kids) come over, so Henry was sent upstairs to rest and read in my bedroom where he could keep his germs to himself. I asked him to get a stack of books to take upstairs with him. This is the stack he chose (weighing in at a hefty 16 pounds!). I offered to carry the books up the stairs for him, and he followed me up. I told him his quarantine didn't have to start until the people arrived, but he insisted, "It's kind of a lot of books. I'd better get started!"

Fast forward 3 1/2 hours. I spent time with friends, ended up making lunch for our guests, and completely forgot about Henry. Finally he opened the door and peeked out. "Mom, I have to go to the bathroom REALLY bad, and I'm also kind of hungry!" It was 1:30 in the afternoon, and until that point, he had been completely happy to spend that whole time reading!  It worked out great, because his school is having a reading challenge this month, so he racked up a bunch of hours for that (he ended up reading 3 more hours today as well).

Notice that he didn't put a single fiction book in his stack.  Henry is totally a non-fiction guy, and a total BOY, for sure.  These are his current favorite reads:

We love having this subscription!  Henry eats it up!
He could look at toy catalogs for HOURS.  This one is especially awesome.

Birthday gift of 2010, which he still looks at every single week.

Comes in handy when you need a "weird but true" fact to impress friends

This one is pretty awesome and is proving to be quite useful.  Did you know that Arlington, MA has a museum that displays a collection of the country's most burnt food?



Wednesday, March 28, 2012

General Conference Chart





Ellis and I have been dreaming up a chart like this for quite some time.  He loves looking at pictures of the General Authorities in their red chairs.  He likes to talk about what order they sit in, who is coming up to the microphone next, etc.  If I know Ellis as well as I think I do, I'm pretty sure this little project is going to be well worth my time and effort, because he is going to spend HOURS playing with it!  I also imagine it will be great fun during General Conference.

See?  President Monson and all of the "Conference Guys" are sitting in their comfy red chairs!

The poster is laminated, and the General Authority page from the middle of the Conference Ensign is laminated too.  They are all attached with Velcro dots (one of my favorite things in the entire universe).

When it's President Monson's turn to speak, you can take him out of his chair . . .

And let him "stand" at the podium!

Ellis insisted that we draw the microphone on the podium.  I tell you, microphones are the center of the universe to this kid!

All of the other apostles are Velcro-ed into their chairs, ready to take their turn at the microphone.


There are 15 extra little chairs on the back row for the other speakers.  Since we don't know who they are, we just laminated the whole page (as well as the page in the back of the Ensign with the auxiliary presidencies), and we'll cut them out during Conference, let them "speak," and then put them in a seat on the back row.

I got the pictures of the chairs and the podium from The Friend magazine.  They are really small in The Friend, though, so I enlarged them on my computer and printed them out in the appropriate sizes (see below if you want my enlarged versions).

UPDATE: If you want to make your own Conference Chart, go to my tutorial at Primary in Zion.  There you will find the printables to download, as well as the instructions.  Enjoy!

Saturday, March 24, 2012

My Boys


This is my new favorite: weekend mornings when we don't have to rush down for breakfast, and everyone ends up in Mom and Dad's bed, and then Sam's fascination with "outside" spreads to the other two, and I think it's just absolutely adorable to have THREE boys.

Thursday, March 22, 2012

The Ramble: Financial Innovation You Can Use


A week ago I went to the 10-year anniversary of a group called the Doorways-to-Dreams (D2D) Fund.  D2D's goal is to foster financial innovation that helps out the everyday person; they particularly focus on innovative ways of helping lower-income families.  It's a great group of smart people who really care about making a difference, and I think they've done some really great and interesting things.  You should check out their website if you're interested in some of the projects they've been working on.

Anyway, as part of the celebration, they had a little panel that talked about the direction of financial innovation, and how it can benefit the consumer.  As I listened to them, I thought about how things have changed in the U.S. over the past 50 years, and how innovation might help us address where we are right now.

Think of the financial world that your parents or grandparents functioned in.  How does it differ from the world that we live in today?  If you're like me, the first thing you think of is that finance was a lot simpler 50 years ago.  It wasn't nearly as easy to invest in anything back then, mortgages pretty much came in only one flavor (30-year fixed), credit cards were non-existent, and your employer likely had a pension plan that would cover you in retirement without you ever having to think about it.  There's a lot of financial theory that says that all of the changes that have happened since then have been great for society as a whole.  For example, anyone can get an E-Trade or Fidelity account and invest in a wide array of markets.  Having that option can't be a bad thing, can it?  Or, people now have several options when they look at a mortgage, and that added flexibility can only help the home-buyer.

The idea that additional choices can only be a good thing makes a lot of sense in nearly every context except finance.  How can adding access or options hurt someone?  How can giving them more control over their own lives make them worse off?  And yet, I think that there are a significant number of people who pine for the good old days of plain white-bread finance.  Why do so many of us wish for that?  I think that there are two really big issues that mess things up for people when it comes to finance:

1. Many people lack the knowledge necessary to really manage their finances.
2. We're not quite as clear-thinking and rational as we need to be.  To give just a few examples, we lack self-control and don't save enough or get into too much debt, we're overconfident in our abilities, we are prone to overweight recent events, etc.

If we could solve these two problems, we could have the best of both worlds: great flexibility and variety in financial services, but the ability to use them to our benefit.  That's where financial innovation can step in and hopefully help us out.  And I think there are reasons to be optimistic about the direction things are heading.

Here are a couple of examples of innovative ideas to illustrate what direction personal finance is heading in:

  • Prize-linked savings accounts: instead of earning a tiny bit of interest each month, you are entered into a sweepstakes to win a grand prize.  This makes savings fun, and attracts a lot more people into savings (instead of throwing away their money on, say, lottery tickets).
  • Credit cards with self-imposed limits: You tell your bank to deny your credit card if you spend too much money in a given month, or on a given product category.
  • Competitive savings:  You compete with your friends to save money.  Every time you do something that helps you save money, your friends get a text saying what you did.
  • Investing with Celebrities: You get to put your money in the same fund that, say, George Clooney has his money in, and you can tell all your friends that you invest with George Clooney.

As you can see, people are getting pretty creative, and I think that some of these ideas will actually work really well.  I'm excited to see these things come out and whether they can actually improve people's lives.

The real problem that I see is that nearly all of the new stuff that people are doing focuses on problem #2 above--they sort of trick us into doing what we know we should be doing but can't make ourselves do.  I don't think anyone has cracked the tough nut of how to actually teach people about basic finance.  I'm not talking about derivatives or the Black-Scholes formula.  I'm talking about basics like: How do interest rates work?  What is a stock?  How does inflation affect your finances?  What happens if I file for bankruptcy?  Isn't it kind of shocking to you that we require high school seniors to be able to do trigonometry, but they aren't required to know what a credit score is?  Recent studies suggest that financial literacy in the U.S. is abysmal.  For example, this survey asked people 5 basic finance questions (covering: interest rates, inflation, bond prices, mortgages, and risks).  Less than 10% of respondents got them all right, and for no single question did more than 70% get it right!

I think that entrepreneurs, policy makers, and academics are all still struggling to figure out the best way to education us about personal finances.  It's not an easy task.  Some high schools do actually have personal finance courses, and the research that I've seen indicates that students in those schools don't end up any better off financially that students who didn't have the education.  So, maybe education isn't the way to go about it.  But we need to provide at least a foundation of knowledge, at the very least so that people will know when they need to seek out help.  It's kind of like a high school health class.  I don't know that health classes make us any healthier, but at least we know the basics of how our bodies work and what things will harm them.  We don't have an equivalent of that for finance.

What do you think?  How can we increase the financial literacy in America?  Should it be the government's responsibility?  Can private businesses find a creative (and profitable) way to educate us?

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Symphony

Wouldn't it be cool if I was cultured enough to think of taking my 3 and 6 year old children to the Boston Symphony Orchestra?

Yes, that would be cool. But since it's not the case, I am thankful to have a good friend like Mary. She is dedicated to the arts and to providing kids with rich cultural experiences. And she's brave enough to take four kids downtown to a fancy symphony hall where they would get to try their hardest to sit quietly for this:





Henry and Ellis enjoyed looking at all of the cool instruments (as seen on Little Einsteins), sitting by Jack, and wiggling to the music. We were lucky to have this fun opportunity!

Today



Our weather has been to-die-for this week! Today was in the upper 70's, and this afternoon I had a glimpse of the perfect life:

Henry and Ellis decided to play in the back yard, and they spent nearly two hours doing this:

and this:

and this:

I didn't get great pictures because I didn't want to break their spell and remind them that there was another world inside our house.

I LOVE having a trampoline because it draws these boys outside. And it really does make for some fun playing TOGETHER - for the two of them as well as for our whole family. We have so many good times out there. I also love that Henry and Ellis are such good companions for each other, especially lately.

While they were outside, I cleaned our disastrous kitchen, got dinner ready, and even washed the back kitchen windows so I could watch them a little better. The whole time I got to listen to the priceless soundtrack of two little boys laughing, wrestling, fighting, scheming, imagining, and racing. And there was a lovely breeze . . . and birds were chirping. It was straight out of the "Jenn's Prior Imaginings for What Being a Mom Would Be Like" archives. Let's just say that we don't see those come up very often in reality. :)


Apparently, I also spent a few minutes taking funny self-portraits and indulging in one of my secret Mom-only treats - A WHITE CHOCOLATE MAGNUM BAR!!!!!
I have been waiting for over ten years to welcome Magnum Bars into my neighborhood American grocery store. I seriously think I have looked for them every time I have walked down the freezer aisle for the past ten years. And now, they are HERE! A little taste of Europe right here at home. And finally in the white chocolate variety! They have other chocolate-y flavors that most of you regular people will certainly fall in love with. Worth the $4.59 for 3 bars? OF COURSE.

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

3.14

Happy Pi Day everyone!


I always like a good excuse to bake a pie, especially when strawberries are starting to go on sale in March. Yum!

Today I made couple of good discoveries about Pi Day:

1. If I want to be realistic, I should only try to make EITHER dinner OR pie. Not both. One year I tried to make chicken pot pie AND strawberry pie. Bad idea. Does anyone else ever try to do way too much and end up with a big pile of dishes and a grumpy family?
2. Pizza IS pie. Of course! What a perfect day to both order pizza AND make pie. Why did I not come up with that one earlier?

I'll bet you thought (for a second) that I was going to have some actual discoveries about the number Pi, or some other mathematical discovery. Um, we'll leave that to Ben for the next Ramble.

Did I mention that Ben and I are the only ones that appreciate pie anyway? Henry and Ellis both view it as a vehicle for getting more whipped cream (and a good excuse to sing "The Great Pie," the most catchy little Backyardigans song ever). They inhaled the whipped cream, licked one strawberry each, and scratched around at the pie. It was really hard to see their barely-touched pieces of beautiful strawberry pie go to waste. So -- did I dump them down the sink? Or did I polish them off while Ben was out playing soccer and I was alone in the house tonight? I think I'll leave you in suspense on that one . . .

Reflections

Ellis saw this reflection of himself in a mixing bowl yesterday and said, "Ha! I look like Tanner!"

It's hard to imagine why he might say that, when my brother Tanner really is the most normal person ever and RARELY pulls any funny faces for cameras or anything . . .

Oh, wait. Is that Blue Steel?

Reflections

Friday, March 09, 2012

One Year

It's amazing to me how much can happen in one year. Just look at our little Sam, who has grown SO much over the last twelve months (I'm going to devote our blog header to Sammy this month so you can see it even bigger if you want to!). So much development happens in that first year of a baby's life. It really is miraculous!



Sam is now almost walking,

and he says a bunch of little words: bath, ball, Mama, Dada, uh-oh, done, shoes, and dishwasher (I swear, it's true!).

He has brought so much light and life and JOY to our home over the past year.

I must admit, Ben and I are breathing a sigh of relief that we have made it through another FIRST YEAR, which always takes its toll on parents. We won't miss the long nights and half-awake days. We won't miss the fighting, tears, fits, and time-outs involved with helping a middle child grudgingly step down from his throne. But when I finished making Sam's birthday video last night, I was certainly in tears because I will miss many things about this past year. I will miss the constant feeling of wonder and awe in my heart every time I had a few minutes alone to hold this precious baby. I will miss our sweet little moments when the two of us got to escape to the quiet upstairs rooms for feeding and bedtime -- when I knew I should go downstairs and help with the other two, but instead I just wanted to play with my little sweet Sammy. I will miss his tiny, timid laugh. He really has been the most angelic and perfect little baby. At the same time, I really do look forward to the year ahead, as the 1-2 stage has been my favorite with the other two boys. So much exciting stuff to come!

If you have seven minutes, you should watch this little celebration of a special boy's life so far. It will help you get to know Sam better and will certainly make you smile.


Sunday, March 04, 2012

Sam's Circus Party

Look how big he is! This little boy is already one year old. It's amazing to me how much can happen in one year. Our little newborn has become a boy with a delightfully vibrant personality. How I love him!

It turns out that the boys are really starting to think their birthday cakes are a big deal. Henry and Ellis have had many conversations recently trying to remember what type of cake they had for each birthday. They now can recite them easily ("Henry had a monster, then a racetrack, then a fish cake . . ."), and I'm feeling the pressure to continue the tradition! Can I make a themed birthday cake for each child, every year, without any repeats? I'm not making any promises, but for now, I'll give it a shot.

We chose a monkey for Sam because he makes some really great monkey sounds while reading That's Not My Monkey (one of his favorite books).

And then when we realized how many people would be invited to the party, we decided to bake cupcakes too. One thing led to another, and we decided to turn it into a full-fledged Circus Party (based on Sam's circus wall-hangings -- remember them?) . . .

complete with popcorn, cotton candy,

juggling,

and magic tricks

by the Great Bendini!

The best part was getting to share it all with friends and family! Yes Shug, you saw it right -- Robbie was able to attend, since he lives in Utah now. And Jacob also happened to be in town and got to stop by as well. These are two of the most amazing boys/men ever, and it just so happens that each of them is still single (ladies?).

Andrea, Autumn, and Sadie

Jennica and Grandma I.

Daxen with his cotton candy

Uncle Dan with the birthday boy and Ben

Sierra and Grandma Whitesides

the cool teenager texting corner

Robbie and Grandpa I. talking in front of the month-to-month Sammy photo display (soon to appear on this blog -- hold your breath!).

Grandma and Grandpa Griffin -- whew! That's a lot of people that love Sam, all in one place (and there are even more that love him and got sick and couldn't make it).

Sam's curiosity almost got the best of him!

Phew! Safely blown out (with some help from Ellis).

Cake time!

This was his first experience with anything sweeter than the rare graham cracker (I am extra paranoid about sugar after our experience with Ellis).

It appears that he approved.

And how about a little more cake?

Yes, please.

He certainly needed a bath by the end of it! Looking at this boy just melts my heart. Even after a full year, I can't quite get over him! I am in love.