Sunday, October 12, 2008
Autumn Bliss
Sunday, October 05, 2008
Smiles, etc.
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Things Fall Apart
To make a long story short, let's just say that NO ONE reminded me about the cruel 2+ weeks of suffering that follow delivering a baby (how did I forget? I don't know). To me, it is one of the most brutal injustices placed upon women. After 9 months of pregnancy and many hours of the most grueling pain known to humankind, we still get to deal with the postpartum muck. And all we want to be doing is sitting on the couch (not on a donut pillow!) holding our precious babies. Why did no one warn me about this? I feel I must include my warning here, to maintain my integrity. If you want actual details, feel free to call me!
I have no idea what we would have done if my mom hadn't been here for 2 weeks. She held the baby for hours when I couldn't. She took Henry on all the outings I couldn't begin to think of taking him on.
His cries may as well have been mine. On Monday, reality struck. I had to take the TWO KIDS to the pediatrician BY MYSELF for a morning appointment, followed by a trip to the pharmacy to pick up a prescription for my latest complication. Let's just say the three of us were simultaneously in tears at several different points. Meanwhile, Ben's first problem sets are taking him approximately 8 hours each to complete (probably about 6 hours longer than I anticipated). Ouch!
Iversons to the rescue! Ben's parents showed up Tuesday night and resumed Grandma Lori's roles, constantly reassuring me that I looked pale and needed yet another nap. I was feeling quite a bit better by the time they left on Friday, so we were able to do a few fun things together, like a lovely picnic along the Charles River. Unfortunately, I missed the boat and forgot to take pictures!
I'm bracing myself for another reality check when Ben goes back to work tomorrow. We've realligned priorities and decided cleaning the house is no longer one of them! Maybe someday it will make its way back up the totem pole. We're just trying to stay afloat, not do any permanent psychological damage to Henry, and enjoy this stage as much as possible. It is such a precious time, albeit a difficult time to avoid "losing it." You'll see Ben and I have both found a new way of sneaking a nap in (sometimes it's the only way to get Ellis to sleep).
Friday, September 19, 2008
History of the week
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Ellis: The photo shoot

Henry
Ellis
And now, here's the slideshow. Enjoy!
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
Ellis is here!
Yikes!
Luckily, we didn't have to wait long! Sunday morning she started having regular contractions, although they weren't too close together. They stayed fairly light and consistent until 4:00am Monday morning when they became bad enough to wake her. Jenn roused me at 4:40 to let me know that we were on the way to the hospital. It's incredible how easy it is to come fully awake when you hear those words...
We called our good friend Daija (thanks, Daija!!) about 5:30, and she zipped up to our house and slept on our couch so that we didn't have to wake Henry up. We made it to the hospital about 6:00am, got checked in, and Jenn continued to have pretty strong contractions. By 8:30 or 9:00 she was dilated to a 4 and they told her she could have the epidural at any time, although her doctor recommended waiting a bit longer in order to allow labor to continue as normally as possible. So, Jenn bravely soldiered on for another half hour, at which point they informed us that they were installing new monitors in all of the rooms that day, and asked if they could do our room first. We said that was fine, and left to wander the halls (there are a total of 3) for another 45 minutes. By that time (about 10:15) she was in a lot of pain, so she asked for the epidural. What they hadn't told us is that they still needed to hook up an IV and get a full bag of fluid in before they could give her the epidural, so she didn't end up getting any relief until about 11:15 or so. Once she could no longer feel her legs, her doctor checked her again and was shocked to find that she was at 9 already, meaning that she had essentially dilated the full amount without any anesthesia at all. We'll definitely ask for the epidural a bit earlier next time!
Unfortunately, at that point the baby's heart rate dropped quite low, and the doctor told us that unless it came back up she'd have to do a C-section. Some of you know that Henry was born by C-section for this very reason, but we were really hoping to be able to have this baby vaginally because (a) recovery is much easier and (b) you can't have too many kids by C-section because of scar tissue build-up. Anyway, I was pretty disappointed as they threw me some scrubs and wheeled Jenn into the O.R. to prepare for the C-section.
Luckily (or was it more than luck?), his heart rate picked up again when they entered the O.R., and the doctor said she was willing to try the birth vaginally. At that point, Jenn was ready to begin pushing, and (with some help from the forceps) 4 contractions later he was born!
Jenn's (of course) quite sore and tired, but feels much better than she did after the C-section, so we're so glad that things worked out so well. Ellis has a couple of bruises from the forceps (note the line down the middle of his forehead), but he's been pretty happy so far!
Henry is so happy to have Ellis finally here! He's still figuring out a few things (no, you can't touch his eyes, Henry), but he's excited to be the big brother. Once he gets those details worked out, I think things will go pretty well.
Thursday, September 04, 2008
Birth Announcement
Wednesday, September 03, 2008
Nesting, Nesting, and More Nesting
First Day
Here is Ben leaving for the bus on his first day of school! Isn't he cute? This week, we say goodbye to that beautiful summer work schedule and hello to lots of homework and busy days and nights. Ah, well! It was fun while it lasted. Actually, Ben gets a little bit of a transition into the real world of grad school. For the first two weeks, he's attending "Math Camp" (doesn't that sound like a party?), so his real classes haven't started yet. It turns out that Math Camp isn't too bad, because it involves things like luncheons and Duck Tours in the middle of all the calculus and analysis. And there's no homework!
And to brighten up your day, I couldn't help but throw in this dramatic photo of the Iverson brothers that I ran across the other day. Purely for your enjoyment (and because Ben's not here to stop me!).
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Thanks, Dad!
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Picture
Impossible Demands
"I don't want you to be driving this van! I want you to be driving a scoop scoop. And I want to sit on your lap on the scoop scoop!"
"I want this to stick on! I want you to make this stick on the fridge!" (talking about a wadded up tissue)
"I want Daddy to fix it right now!" ("Daddy's not home right now.") "He IS home! Daddy IS home! He IIIIIIISSSSSSSSS!" ("Nope, actually he's not.")
And they have been screamed with the utmost fervor, as if I could really just pull over and hop into a backhoe and start driving it, leaving our van on the side of the road. Pray for me to make it until naptime today!
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Bring on the baby!
Friday, August 22, 2008
My Life Validated
We were driving to the wee-quarium and dropping Ben off at work on the way. Ben pointed out to Henry where he goes to work every day.
H: And where does Mommy work?
J: Mommy works at our house, staying home with you.
H: And what does Mommy do for work?
B: What do you think Mommy does for work?
H: Um . . . (a reflective pause, and lots of tension coming from the driver's seat) She makes cookie dough?
Hooray! My life, in the eyes of a 2-year-old, boiled down to a single representation: cookie dough. I couldn't be more satisfied (and don't you dare ask how many times I've made cookie dough in the last 3 weeks, because I learned at my OB appointment Wednesday that my weight gain has plateaued, so I have all the liberties in the world).
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Henry's Quotes of the Month
- "Beavers swim in the water . . . because they look like monkeys."
- "I had a accident . . . because I had a accident about the Gogurt."
- "I think I have a fever . . . because I need to go to the hospital."
- "Yesterday, when I was a baby, I went swimming yesterday when I was a baby."
- "When it was dark yesterday . . . it was dark yesterday."
- "Yesterday, when I was a baby, I saw racoons flying."
- Various other discussions about things we did "yesterday" include going to Grandma's house, visiting our friends in New Jersey, going to the Children's Museum, and many other things we did 3 or more weeks ago.
- "I have a idea about our old house. Because when somebody's done living there, we can live there again." (He told me this idea twice, and both times it made me cry).
- "I have a idea!" (What's the idea?) "It's a idea about the cars stuck in traffic!" (He shared this idea with me about 20 times in one day, the day he was lining up all of his cars in the hallway in a long line).
- (While lying horizontally across the bottom of the stairs) "I wanna be dead on the side of the road!"
- (While leaning against a magnetic bag clip on our fridge, which was apparently his cross) "I'm dying like Jesus."
- (While holding and examining a comb) "It's kind of like a truck that drives on the grass."
- "Was THAT nice?" (He asks this several times a day after doing things like throwing dishes at people, repeatedly hitting my belly, and jumping on Ben).
- "You look like . . . a protector!" (What's a protector?) "I don't KNOW!" (The "I don't KNOW" comment comes pretty frequently after we challenge his crazy ideas).
- "Can we go to moovnee feeders?" (What's moovnee feeders?) "It's like a big place where you go to watch shows, like Harry Potter." (Oh, movie theaters?) "Yeah."
- "Instrunction Veecles" are bulldozers, cranes, excavators, and dump trucks (i.e. construction vehicles).
- The "Weequarium" is a place with lots of big fish (we're hoping to go there tomorrow!).
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Two videos, two songs
1. Harvard Business School is a serene place, especially in the summer when the nearly 2,000 MBA students are all doing internships. There are a few doctoral students wandering campus, several painters and landscapers keeping things looking nice, and occasionally you even see a professor or two. But what I was surprised to see was wildlife. Yep, HBS is home to lots of rabbits, and several wild turkeys. Who'd have thought? This video is proof (I didn't make it, and it's kind of long--you probably don't need to watch the whole thing). Ivy league indeed...
2. Here's why I don't trust salespeople. They'll say anything to make a sale.
3. Those of you who have never lived in the same house as Jenn might not know that she knows approximately 1,279,113 inane songs. We've been married for nearly five years, and I think she still comes up with about one song per week that I've never heard in my life, no exaggeration. This week she popped out two beauties: "The Barney Bag," from Barney of course, and "Dogs & Cats" from Scripture Scouts. If you really want to hear the Dogs & Cats song, it's probably about song #15 on Scripture Scouts Radio. You'll know you've found it when you hear the first lyric: "Woof!" And just to clear up any confusion, no, she didn't just start singing these after Henry was born. From the looks of the last post, it appears that Henry has a lot of his mom's genes in this regard!
Friday, August 15, 2008
If you have 5 minutes . . .
Keep in mind that most of these clips were filmed in our old apartment, before we moved here (it has taken we a while to edit them!). Also, most of them happen to be filmed after breakfast when he was still in his pajamas. Henry knows that singing is one easy way to get out of finishing a meal!
Henry's Favorite Songs from Ben and Jenn on Vimeo.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Fun to Do
If watching the Olympics isn't enough to entertain you this week, you could try conjuring up this mental image:
- Henry decides the opening song for Family Night should be "Fun to Do."
- Ben, Jenn, and Henry all pretend to ride a bike while singing
- Ben and Jenn try their hardest to act out and sing the following while keeping the straightest faces possible:
- "Sitting on the couch is fun to do"
- "Looking at windows is fun to do"
- "Looking at pillows is fun to do"
- "Going out doors is fun to do"
- "Looking for the fireplace is fun to do"
Monday, August 11, 2008
5 Things that Make Me Happy

4. Painting and woodburning. This is what our dining room looks like right now! I have this project going for the baby's room, which hopefully will be finished for all of you to see within about two weeks. It's fun to be able to just leave it out on the table and pick it up whenever I feel like it. I think having a project like this gives my life an extra zing. I find that I'm dropping "important" things on my to-do list because something within me would much rather be painting. I think that's a pretty healthy set of priorities.
Peach Pie with Candied Pecan Topping (Better Homes and Gardens Cook Book)